父亲给儿子的一封信：当我日渐老去的时候Dearson...孩子…..ThedaythatyouseemeoldandIamalreadynot,havepatienceandtrytounderstandme.哪天你看到我日渐老去,身体也渐渐不行,请耐着性子试着了解我.IfIgetdirtywheneating…ifIcannotdress…havepatience.RememberthehoursIspentteachingittoyou.如果我吃的脏兮兮，如果我不会穿衣服，有耐性一点。你记得我曾花多久时间教你这些事吗?If,whenIspeaktoyou,Irepeatthesamethingsthousandandonetimes，donotinterruptme，listentome.如果,当我一再重复述说同样的事情，不要打断我,听我说。Whenyouweresmall,Ihadtoreadtoyouthousandandonetimesthesamestoryuntilyougettosleep.WhenIdonotwanttohaveashower,neithershamemenorscoldme.你小时候,我必须一遍又一遍的读着同样的故事,直到你静静睡着，当我不想洗澡,不要羞辱我也不要责骂我……RememberwhenIhadtochaseyouwiththousandexcusesIinvented,inorderthatyouwantedtobath.Whenyouseemyignoranceonnewtechnologies,givemethenecessarytimeandnotlookatmewithyourmockingsmile…你记得小时后我曾编出多少理由，只为了哄你洗澡。当你看到我对新科技的无知,给我一点时间,不要挂着嘲弄的微笑看着我Itaughtyouhowtodosomanythings,toeatgood,todresswell,toconfrontlife.我曾教了你多少事情啊….如何好好的吃,好好的穿…如何面对你的生命……WhenatsomemomentIlosethememoryorthethreadofourconversation,letmehavethenecessarytimetoremember,andifIcannotdoit,donotbecomenervous,asthemostimportantthingisnotmyconversationbutsurelytobewithyouandtohaveyoulisteningtome…如果交谈中我忽然失忆不知所云,给我一点时间回想。如果我还是无能为力,请不要紧张。对我而言重要的不是对话,而是能跟你在一起,和你的倾听…..IfeverIdonotwanttoeat,donotforceme.IknowwellwhenIneedtoandwhennot.当我不想吃东西时,不要勉强我。我清楚知道该什么时候进食Whenmytiredlegsdonotallowmewalk,givemeyourhandthesamewayIdidwhenyougaveyourfirststeps.当我的腿不听使唤，扶我一把如同我曾扶着你踏出你人生的第一步….AndwhensomedayIsaytoyouthatIdonotwanttoliveanymore,thatIwanttodie,donotgetangry,somedayyouwillunderstand…当哪天我告诉你不想再活下去了，请不要生气，总有一天你会了解…Trytounderstandthatmyageisnotlivedbutsurvived.试着了解我已是风烛残年,来日可数.Somedayyouwilldiscoverthat,despitemymistakes,IalwayswantedthebestthingforyouandthatItriedtopreparethewayforyou.有一天你会发现,即使我有许多过错,我总是尽我所能要给你最好的…Youmustnotfeelsad,angryorimpotentforseeingmenearyou.Youmustbenexttome,trytounderstandmeandtohelpmeasIdiditwhenyoustartedliving.Helpmetowalk,helpmetoendmywaywithloveandpatience.IwillpayyoubyasmileandbytheimmenseloveIhavehadalwaysforyou.当我靠近你时不要觉得感伤,生气或无奈，你要紧挨着我,如同我当初帮着你展开人生一样的了解我,帮我….扶我一把,用爱跟耐心帮我走完人生…我将用微笑和我始终不变无边无际的爱来回报你Iloveyouson…我爱你孩子Yourfather你的父亲
