女人觉得男人很有魅力的7个特质SevenqualitieswomenfindattractiveinmenWomensearchhighandlowforatrulygreatguy.WhenIwasinmyteens,IthoughtIcouldhaveitall:theguywiththemodellooks,fabulousfamily,fantasticjob,whoknowshispurposeinlifeandknowstoautomaticallyrubmyfeetwhenIgethomefromwork.女人总是寻寻觅觅，期待遇到完美的白马王子。年轻时我就以为自己可以拥有一切：那个男人相貌英俊、家境殷实、工作体面；他不仅清楚自己的人生目标，还懂得在我下班回家后对我倍加呵护。Obviously,Ihadaquickwake-upcallthatthefairytaleIdreamedofdidn’texist!Thatdidn’tmeanIcouldn’thavewhatIwanted,itjustmeantIhadtoreevaluatesomeofthequalitiesthatIwantedmypartnertohave.Herearesevenofthemostimportantqualitieswomenfindattractiveinmen:显然，我很快被敲了一记警钟，意识到这种童话根本就不存在！当然，这并不表示我无法拥有自己渴望的东西，只是说明我应该重新考虑对另一半品质的期许。下面就是女人认为男人最有魅力的七大特质：1.Anabilitytoenjoythepresentmoment能够珍惜当下Withhowbusyweareandhowconnectedwearetoeveryoneandeverythingvirtually,itissoattractivewhenamancanputhisphonedown,turnofftheTV,shutdownthecomputerandjustenjoybeingpresent.Itisnicetobeconnectedandbeabletoaccessalmostanyinformationthatweneedatthedropofadime,buttobeabletoshutdownwithoutgettingantsytogetbacktoFacebookorfootballissomethingyoudon’tcomebytoooften.现实中，每个人都忙于应付各种人际关系和各类繁琐事务，要是某个男人能够放下电话、关掉电视、合上电脑，愿意单纯陪你享受此时此刻的话，那真是太有风度了！随时保持联络并获取各类信息纵然很有必要，但若能暂时屏蔽Facebook或球赛，岂不是更难能可贵？2.Knowingyourpurpose清楚自己的目标Nothingismoresexythanamanwhoisn’tafraidtogoforwhathewassentheretodo.Thereareatonofmenouttherewhobelievetheyneedtobe“bigstrongmen”anddowhattheyweretaught,butittakesatrulyspecialmantoputhimselfoutthereandfollowwhathewasmeanttodo.如果一个男人能勇往直前地追求自己的目标，那真是再有魅力不过了！这世上有很多人都觉得自己应该遵循教诲、努力成为“强大的男人”，但真正身体力行去做的，却只有那么寥寥数个。3.Amanwhoismotivatedanddrivenisawesome有动力很上进的男人很棒No,I’mnottalkingaboutanexpensivecar.I’mtalkingaboutamanwhohastheabilitytogoafterwhathewants.Ambitionissomethingthatwomenfindveryattractiveinmen.Notambitioninthesensethatyouknockotherpeopledowntobuildyourselfup,butinthefactthatyouwillworkhardtogetwhatyouwantandhelpotherstodothesamething.这里要讲的不是名车，而是强调男人应该能够努力争取自己渴望的东西。女人认为雄心壮志的男人很有魅力。这里的壮志不是说你可以撂倒他人强大自我，而是说你能够通过努力工作来得到自己渴望的东西，同时还能向他人伸出援手。4.Attractivenesscomesfrommakinguslaugh魅力来自逗人欢笑Ithasbeenmyexperienceinallofmyrelationships—andwithmenI’vehadcrusheson—thatIwouldchoosethemanwhomademelaughoverthedropdeadsexyone.Every.Single.Time.Womenwantaguywhovalueswhatagoodlaughcandoforyourbodyandsoul.Womentrulyappreciatemenwhocanmakethemlaughandlaughatthemselvestoo.凭我的恋爱经验——在迷恋过的男人中，我宁可选择能让我欢笑的男人，也不要帅得酷毙了的家伙。真的每一次都是这样。女人喜欢能让自己身心愉悦、开怀大笑的男人，也真心欣赏那些不仅逗人开心也自得其乐的男人。5.Honestyandtrustworthiness诚实并值得信任Idon’tknowaboutyou,butknowingthatIcantrustamanissoimportant.Although,ifmybuttstilllooksfatinthosejeans,Idon’twanttoknow!Inallseriousnessthough,knowingthatamanwilltellmethetruthisveryimportant.Communicationandtrustaretwoofthebiggestthingsthatmakeorbreakrelationshi...