虎妈战歌的英语读后感IhaverecentlyreadBattleHymnofTigerMotherpublishedbyThePenguinPressin.ThisautobiographywaswrittenbytheChineseAmericanwomanAmyChua,atenuredprofessorinYaleLawSchool.Shecausesasensationbecauseherstrictbutuniqueparentingwhichbringsexcellentperformanceofhertwodaughters.ThisautobiographytellsthecourseofAmyChuahowsheraisedthetwodaughtersinChineseparentingway.Itisdividedintothreeparts.Atthefirstpart,itgivessomeintroductionsofthetwodaughters,thefamily.Andinthesecondandthirdparts,thewritertellsmoredetailsintheprocessofraisinghertwodifferentdaughtersandthedifficultiesshewasconfrontedintheprocess,andmostimportantlythesuccessthedaughtersachievedinmusicwhichbroughtAmyChuaprideaswellasthewholefamily.Tosomeextent,Idon’tlikeAmy’sparentinginsomeaspects.Inmyopinion,shedeprivedthenatureofchildrenandpushedtoomuchpressureontheirchildren,especiallyonLuluwhowasundertheshadowofherexcellentelderdaughter—Sophia.WhileIwasreadingthethirdpartintherebellionpart,Icouldn’tcontrolmyownemotion,IfeltwhatLulufeltandevenhatedagainstherselfishandautocraticmother.Icouldn’tunderstandwhyAmydidn’tletLulugetupfromsit,forwater,noteventogotothebathroomwhenLulujustwantedarestduringthelonghours’practiceofviolin.ShemadeLulupracticeviolinalldayduringthefamily’svacationabroad.Shespoiledthevacationbylettingtheotherfamilymemberswaitingthepractice.Shewasunreasonable.ButnextwhatIdoistoadmireher.ThereisanoldChinesesaying“propertycanneverlastforthreegenerations”ButAmyChuadidchangeitHerparentscametoU.Sandsufferedatoughlifeattheverybeginning.TheytaughtAmymathandpianoinanextremestrictwaywhenshewasakid.Undertheinfluenceofherparents,nowAmyisfrugalandprettystrictwithherdaughtersandherself.Theyarethevaluablepointsofher.Althoughsheissoextremeonherparenting,shehastheadvisableideasthattheparentsandtheparentstobetolearn.Firstly,asparents,theycouldn’tignoretheirchildrenandputallfocusontheirjob.Thereisnoexcusefornotconcerningtheirchildren.Exceptsupervisingherdaughters,AmyChuahastogivelessonsinuniversity,writebooksandhandlethefamilychores.Sheissobusy,butshedoesn’tignorethedaughters.Secondly,parentsshouldbestrictwiththeirchildrenespeciallywhentheyarekidsbecausekidslackofselfcontrol.Theyshouldnotindulgetheirchildrenininternetorsleepovers.Thirdly,parentsshouldmastersomeskillsinparenting.Asamatteroffact,therearesomanyChineseparentswhoarestrictwiththeirchildrenwithnoavailofsuccess.Successcan’tbetotallycopied,becausesomeparentsignoretheskillsinparenting.Whentheirchildrendon’tfollowtheirwillorperformwellenoughtosatisfythem,theywilllosetheirtemperandevenbeattheirchildren,yes,ofcourse,AmyChuawillbemadbutshewon’tbeatherdaughters,inthiscondition,shewillbesoberandwaituntilherdaughtersperformwellenough.Shelearntsomemusicknowledgeinherchildren’sclassandsupervisedthempatiently.Sheknewwheretocorrectthemistakesandgavethechildrenextraordinarysuccess.Tigermotherarousedabigheatinparentingandthrewsuchanimportantissueforustothinkabout.BattleHymnofTigerMothergivesusreallysomeenlightenment.Anyway,that’sareallyuniqueexperienceinreadingthisbook.
