征婚大学英语作文Withthedevelopmentofinformationization,thepaceoflifeinthecityspeedsup,whilehumanmunicationbeessuperficialandreduced.Therefore,manypeopleattendtofindshortcuttofindtheirspousebyadvertisingonnewspaper,TVorInternet.Becausetheythinkitsavestheirtimeaswellashelpsthemtofindtheiridealcouple.However,asfarasIobserve,thissocallquickandconvenientwaymaydomoreharmthangood.随着信息化的发展城市生活节奏的加快人际交往变得肤浅和减少因此很多人想寻找捷径通过在报纸电视或者网络上打广告来寻找他们的配偶因为他们认为这样不仅节省了时间而且能够帮助他们找到理想伴侣然而就我观察来看这一所谓的快捷方便的方式弊大于利First,asweallknowthatadvertisementsaretemptingbutdeceptive.Inordertoattracttargetcustomers,theadvertisementsarefullfilledwithdecoratedexpressions.Theadvertisementforspouse,withnoexception,willeitherexaggeratetheirwealthorfabricatetheirstatusandidentityinordertotemptteprey.Forexample,anuglymanwithbadtemperwilldescribehimselfasahandsomeandeventempered.首先我们都知道广告是诱人的但也是骗人的为了吸引目标顾客广告的装饰方式琳琅满目征婚广告也不例外要么夸大他们的财富或者捏造他们的地位和身份以诱惑猎物比如一个又丑脾气又差的男人会把自己描述成帅气而且好脾气的人Second,evenifyouwereluckyenoughnottogetdeceivedinthebeginningandhappenedtofindaspousethroughtheadvertisement,therewouldstillbemanyproblemsinlaterlife,becausethespousegotinthiswaymaybeunstable.Beforetheyknoweachother,theyliveinquitedifferentsocialinteractions.Theymaybedifferentintemper,interestsandlifestyles.Therefore,it'shardforthetwotolivepeacefullytogether.Besides,marriageisthebinationoftwofamilies.Exceptforthetwo,theirfamiliesareimportantfactorsthathavegreatimpactsontheirmarriage.其次即使你一开始很幸运没有被骗碰巧通过广告找到了伴侣以后的生活中仍然存在很多问题因为以这种方式找到的伴侣是不稳定的在他们了解彼此之前他们生活在截然不同的社交环境中他们的脾气兴趣和生活方式可能会不同因此这样的两个人是很难在一起和平生活的此外婚姻是两个家庭的结合除了他们两人外他们的家庭也是对婚姻产生影响的重要因素Fromthediscussionsabove,it'shardforpeopletofindtheirspousethroughadvertisements.Whatweshoulddoisopenourmindsandtakeeffortstomanagethesolidtrueloveinsteadofapproachingitbychance.Onlyinthiswaycanwefindthemostappropriatespouseandexperiencethemostenduringlove.从以上的讨论我们可以看出通过广告来寻找配偶是很难的我们应该做的就是打开我们的心灵努力经营坚实的真爱而不是偶然接近它只有这样我们才能找到最适合的伴侣体验最持久的爱情
